Runboard.com
Слава Україні!
-->


runboard.com       Sign up (learn about it) | Sign in (lost password?)

 
Wolfram749 Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Registered user

Registered: 10-2005
Posts: 405
Reply | Quote
I detest my stepmother & her two rats


It aint a magical blend in my books! :roar:

---
"When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth."
Apr/27/2007, 6:27 pm Link to this post Send PM to Wolfram749 Blog
 
1lost1 Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Minion of Mayhem

Registered: 10-2006
Posts: 2791
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


That is awful when it takes a left. My mother had a boyfriend that I detested. I was younger so it was just assumed that my age had something to do with my feelings. I knew I did not like the guy. He didn't care for me and my brothers. Which honestly that was his choice, there are 3 of us and we are spaced 5 years apart I am sure we were a handful, but knew that when we had company of any sort we behaved & I will say for the most part we did. When we were home alone that was a different story but if we had guests in our home we were on our best behavior,Mom accepted and expected nothing less. He was just rude, rude to me and extremely rude to my youngest brother. Me expressing the fact I didn't care for him didn't help matters, it only made my Mom more determined to change my mind... well my mind doesn't change easily. She did finally see the light. Unfortunately for her she found out I was right and he was an a.h. (sorry some descriptions are spot on and there are only 2 words that actually describe him).

I know of a few families who it wasn't magic for. It does seem to me it's more common for people a bit older, because it wasn't as common back when I was younger. A lot of it just has to do with people and personalities too. Some people were just not meant to spend time together peacefully.

It's definately something that can't be forced & I would imagine a certain amount of couth is needed to pull it off and have it work as it should or even at least be a livable situation.

---

Mayhem of Motherhood
RunBoard Directory Staff
Apr/27/2007, 8:07 pm Link to this post Send PM to 1lost1 Yahoo
 
FeedYourHead Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Registered user

Registered: 05-2006
Location: NorCal
Posts: 643
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


I'm so sorry the both of you had to deal with that

my only really personal experience with 'steps' is my niece - who is my sister-in-law's daughter from her first marriage - and I love her to pieces - my mom did too -
and I do believe she loves us
I only worry that maybe she doesn't realize that she is loved by me just as much as I love my brother's 'natural' daughter ... that she might think she is in someway 'second' or something ...

---

Apr/28/2007, 3:33 am Link to this post Send PM to FeedYourHead MSN
 
JarOfGiggles Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Registered user

Registered: 01-2007
Location: State of confustion!!!!
Posts: 32
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


I guess that the movies making the step parents out to be evil is true. LOL!!!:ROFL

Hope that I make a good step mom to my boyfriends daughter. She likes me now and is happy about it all so that is a good sign I guess.

---


May/14/2007, 3:29 pm Link to this post Send PM to JarOfGiggles
 
1lost1 Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Minion of Mayhem

Registered: 10-2006
Posts: 2791
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


Isn't that cool giggles... has to ease your mind a bit. She is getting to the age though where the road gets a bit ricky so try and always keep with you some clash with their parents and step parents and its more about them finding themselves than really not liking their parents. That's how some find their independence. She's at a great age and a scarey one too- will be nice to travel with her though through the years she finds herself and very neat you get to be part of it.

---

Mayhem of Motherhood
RunBoard Directory Staff
May/14/2007, 3:46 pm Link to this post Send PM to 1lost1 Yahoo
 
JarOfGiggles Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Registered user

Registered: 01-2007
Location: State of confustion!!!!
Posts: 32
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


Yeah, she really is a good kid. I told the boyfriend that and he told me I don't live with her yet. :ROFL I'll let you know after a month of living with her if my view changed. LOL!!!!!

---


May/17/2007, 9:09 am Link to this post Send PM to JarOfGiggles
 
Magic Prince Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Thinned the Crop

Registered: 02-2007
Location: Earth
Posts: 65
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


 Too add my position on this..

My father and mother got a devorse when I was about 4..My Motber remairried at the age of six, me being six..

I am thankful, but at that time was not...

I am distant in someways..But at least I have someone I can turn too when they are around..Not around now as they traavel a great deal so, glad I had it all the years I did..I needed, they came...
May/27/2007, 11:55 am Link to this post  
 
kismet815 Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Registered user

Registered: 02-2007
Posts: 30
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


Even though I have never been through this, my best friend's family is a step family and it is a mess. There are 8 older children from the father's first marriage. None from the mother's first marriage. 3 from the second marriage. The oldest child from the father's first marriage is only @5 years younger than the stepmother. The older children never accepted the stepmother no matter what she did. Their mother ran away and left them all w/their father to raise. She died not too long after she left them. The stepmother came into the situation knowing what she was getting into and over the years has done everything and anything for the stepkids. Every holiday, is another round in the ongoing fight. The stepmother can seem like a hard person, but she does the things she does out of love. I really hate it for her b/c she has never been accepted by the stepchildren and even after being married to their dad for forty years they still treat her like and outsider.

---

Jun/4/2007, 8:53 am Link to this post Send PM to kismet815
 
1lost1 Profile
Live feed
Blog
Friends
Miscellaneous info

Minion of Mayhem

Registered: 10-2006
Posts: 2791
Reply | Quote
Re: I detest my stepmother & her two rats


I know Greg's Dad (my children's father) married a woman after their Mother died. Even with the 6 kids being older, Greg was the baby this happened when he was late teens~ they never really accepted their Step Mom. All were polite, but in a very obviously cold way~ I know it had to be difficult for her.

---

Mayhem of Motherhood
RunBoard Directory Staff
Jun/4/2007, 9:28 am Link to this post Send PM to 1lost1 Yahoo
 


Add a reply





You are not logged in (We're Fun ~ Hang Out With Us)